His research has given his team the ability to predict if a couple is headed for divorce within 94% accuracy. He outlines the four horsemen that will lead to the downfall of a relationship:

1. Criticism (attacking the core of their character)
2. Contempt (actually being mean and assuming a morally superior position)
3. Defensiveness (feeling wrongly accused and playing the victim)
4. Stonewalling (completely withdrawing when conflict arises)

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The second key to a successful relationship is sharing the same values, goals and outlook on life. No matter what happens in life, If the both of you are on the same page on these things, you can make it through anything. What do I mean by this? I mean wanting the same things and reaching the same destination in life, not necessarily sharing all the same hobbies and interests (although this is helpful of course). Do you both see your life the same in 20 years? Do you both want kids? Do you both have a desire for a better future? Does your partner support your goals? Do you share a similar philosophy on life or religion? Do your moral codes match up?

In other words, with all that life throws at you, can you make it through with that strong foundation you guys share?

Number three is continually putting work into the relationship. Look at love like a garden that needs continuous watering and sunlight to survive. You wouldn’t just stop watering your plants if you wanted them to grow would you? It takes a great deal of respect, humility and generosity to maintain a beautiful relationship. That doesn’t mean it has to be perfect, but if both of you are in a state of giving to one another, you both will feel like your cups are full.

After finding my soulmate in this life, my hope is to help as many people as I can find theirs, because I know the joy it brings to have a loving and supportive partner. This is my passion in life!

If you are interested in working with me as your Mens dating coach, don’t hesitate! Message me here. Love is out there waiting for you!

​The man has a choice to either talk to her and form a new relationship with this woman, or for him not to say a word to her and possibly never see her again.
 
That’s a transition period. After he grabs his good ol 'cup of joe, he then heads to work. Possibly he works from home, or he works at his office or 50/50.
 
He then has lunch and he's hungry so he decides to get some food at a nearby restaurant that is in a shopping center. Most likely when he arrives, he will see 2-3 women he is attracted to. Maybe the hostess at the restaurant, or a woman who's eating lunch by herself or another woman in line. 
 
That's another transition period.
 
He then goes back to work and then depending on his lifestyle activities, he may go to the gym. He goes and works out and then again, he sees a ton of women he's attracted to but he doesn’t talk to them.
 
As you can see, there's plenty of opportunities for him to talk to women in his everyday life and potentially find a relationship, it’s just that most people think you have to be out at night or on an actual dating app to start something. 
 
What I just described are transition periods, and each person has their own activities/hobbies that they like to do outside of work, but it is critical that at least you have some hobbies that you can do and see other women in your daily life. (Add fun activities to your daily life that give you exposure to talk to women.)
 
When you meet a woman in real life, you bypass the whole online dating process of getting matched, then texting, setting up a date and then seeing if you guys click. You can immediately see if you're attracted to her and if y'all have some chemistry, if you like her personality and other characteristics. Online dating does not have these capabilities so easy to read for you at first. 
 
As you can see, if you get out of your comfort zone and initiate conversations with women during transition periods of everyday life, if you have courage and confidence and understand how to have a playful conversation with women and other people, it will be easy for you to find a girlfriend and connect without using dating apps!
 
How do I know this? Because a ton of my clients have found their girlfriend in real life. And so have I, and just in case you think that talking to women at the gym is bad, well that's how I met my gorgeous loving girlfriend. If it wasn't for me initiating a conversation at the gym with her, we would have never met. It’s been one of the best decisions that I made in my life.
 
It’s also possible for you to do the same thing. No matter what has happened to you, there's a great woman out there for you. All you have to do is be ready when the moment arises! Fortune favors the bold, and the bigger the risk the bigger the reward. 
 
Years later when you guys are married, people will ask how you guys met. You can tell them your love story and how you took a chance. Because of that, you have met your dream partner and your kids will think you're a hero!
 
So, take the chance! Go for it, talk to the girl that you like!
 
If you have trouble with the process of talking to women and attracting them, as a Men’s Dating Coach, I would love to help you crush it in your dating and love life. You’re one conversation away from finding the one. 
 
#worksmarternotharder

If you have been single for a while or have been in a toxic relationship, then it is time to build new goals in this area of your life.
 
Most people plan their goals in all aspects of their life. They have goals in their business, career, health, finances, and other goals that they have as hobbies or activities.
 
It's great that they have new goals to conquer, to get better and new skill sets to acquire, but one thing I noticed is that they don't have any plans and goals for their dating and love lives, so they don't advance in this area of their life!
 
We could argue that our love life is one of the most important areas of our life, but people do not have any plans to achieve what they want: To find a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with their dream partner!
 
This is one of the main reasons why most people go years without finding the right woman, and if they do, they end up settling down in a subpar relationship with a subpar partner who they don't really have much chemistry or passion with.
What's the point of life if professionals and entrepreneurs work so hard on their career or business to have major success in that avenue if they have a mediocre love life.
 
It just cancels out what they work so hard for!
 
I'm here to tell you that you can find the best of both worlds. A great career and a great love life! There's nothing that is stopping you from achieving this except for yourself!
 
If you want this year to change, you're going to have to put a little time and effort into making this dream become a reality. If you want to find your dream partner, you have to have goals in this avenue, plain and simple.
 
Let's get down to how!
 
The first step on how to find a girlfriend that is supportive in 2022 is to write down exactly what you want!
 
What do you want in this area of your life? What is your ideal type of woman and what are her characteristic traits you want her to have? Then, what values do you want her to also have?
 
It is impossible to be with someone who doesn't share your same values. For example, if later in life you want to start a family and have kids but the woman you're dating doesn't want to have kids.
 
It will never work out. The values are not the same. Or another example, you are the type of guy who doesn't want to go out to the clubs and bars every weekend but the woman that you're dating can't help herself but wants to get drunk every weekend with you or her single friends. It just won’t work out. Values are completely different.
 
These are the types of goals you need to have when it comes to knowing what you truly want in your dating and love life. Make it clear and concise so that you know if this woman you met does not have these core values, then it’s time to move on and keep searching.
 
The next step is to write down a plan on how you will meet women. Like I said earlier, don't take the bs advice on just waiting. How much longer do you want to wait?! Take action- there are so many different ways to meet women these days!
 
Go out and get out of your house and go and meet women. If you are complaining about being single, but yet in your leisure time you are playing video games or binge-watching shows on Netflix, then it is time to spend a little less time on those activities and find activities that you will meet women in!
 
One of the other steps is to improve your sense of style. Just like you're improving your finances, men who are high value men, never stop improving on their fitness and also their apparel. Start dressing a little nicer and take care of your hygiene.
 
You never know who you will run into. As they say “you never have a second chance to make a first impression.” In the beginning, people don’t judge your personality, they judge your appearance. Stop dressing so shabby and start to dress more proper. Just like some people think that being rich is evil, some people think that dressing nice is a bad thing. That is another myth that is false.
 
It is funny when men tell me that they want a quality girlfriend who's attractive and looks great in her fashion, but the man dresses like a cartoon character, wearing a loose t-shirt and old baggy jeans and some vans.
 
It is easy to fix that and completely revamp yourself. Doesn't take much time, but it takes some thinking and planning!
 
If you do these couple of things and start to plan your dating and love life, you will already see a lot of improvement and start to get more dates with women, so that you can end up finding the right girl to settle down with and find something meaningful!
 
Life is not meant to be working day in day out, coming home alone to an empty house and not having fulfillment in your love life!
 
No matter where you are at and what has happened to your past, you CAN find love! You can find the one!
 
If there are some people in your life who are negative nancies and just complain and have the victim mindset that all women are evil, cut them out of your life or stop hanging out with them as much. Start to hang out with others who are positive and all about a growth mindset!
 
I want you to have a blessed 2022 and make all of your dreams come true. 
 
If you still have trouble getting dates with women and finding the right woman for you, you can always send me a message and I'd be happy to help this goal become a reality!
 
Don’t ever give up, and I'll see you on the winning side! #worksmarternotharder

#2. You aren’t willing to make a change.

We humans are creatures of habit. We like to stay on the same schedule and don't like to change it too much, unless it’s something we know will be guaranteed fun and low risk.

So guys will end up spending their spare time the same way, for years. After work you go hang out with the boys, playing video games or just Netflix and chilling. You’re tired from working all day, so you don’t want to get out of your comfort zone and make a new habit. 

So your dating life ends up being just another random guy on a dating app some girl overlooks, but yet you hate that you are waking up alone every day. You’re frustrated, you want to build a connection with someone, and you want to do it all without changing or learning a thing about it. 

That’s the definition of Insanity – doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result.

​#3. You feel unworthy of being with your dream woman.

Is perfection really what women are looking for?

Have you ever seen an ok looking guy without a bunch of money with a great girl before? You think to yourself – hold on – not rich, not a supermodel, what’s he got that I haven’t?

The truth is that women don't want the perfect guy. They want a guy who is perfectly fine with himself.

So guys will say, “She won’t like me. I’m not funny, I’m not good looking, and I can’t be with her. She’s way out of my league.”

This is a huge lower self-belief that causes men to put off improving this area of their life. If a man thinks they are not good enough to be with the women they want to be with, he will wait till the perfect moment somehow lands in his lap. 

This would be like getting introduced to a woman from a friend of a friend, hoping that you guys will hit it off, instead of being a creator. You could just spark up a conversation with the woman next to you in line at Starbucks. You never know what could happen if you just introduced yourself, instead of letting her walk away and never see her again.

The bottom line is that life is short. Stop waiting for the perfect opportunity and just do it. The moment will never be perfect. If you don't know how to meet and attract your ideal woman, message me and I'll be your Men’s Dating Coach in San Diego, CA.  We will not be waiting for things to be perfect. We will just do, and execute!